make up

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What does "make up" really mean?

To reconcile after an argument; or to invent a story; or to compensate for something.

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make up
To reconcile after an…
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fall out
To have a serious…
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grow apart
To gradually become less…
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sort out
To organize or resolve…
make up
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make up Definition
make up

To reconcile with someone after a disagreement or argument; also, to invent a story or excuse that is not true; or to do something to compensate for a loss, mistake, or missed opportunity.

"After three days of silence, the brothers finally made up and went out for dinner together."
"She made up an excuse about being sick so she wouldn't have to attend the meeting."
Informal Separable

As the saying goes…

🏮 As the old Chinese proverb says: 'The one who will not make up loses two things — the friend and the argument.'

make up Examples
make up
"After three days of silence, the brothers finally made up and went out for dinner together."
"She made up an excuse about being sick so she wouldn't have to attend the meeting."
"He worked extra shifts on the weekend to make up the hours he had missed."
make up Grammar
make up

Type

Separable phrasal verb.

Notes

When 'make up' is used with an object, the verb and particle can be separated: 'She made a story up' or 'She made up a story' are both correct. However, when the object is a pronoun, it must go between the verb and particle: say 'She made it up,' not 'She made up it.' When the meaning is 'to reconcile,' the verb is typically used without a direct object or with 'with': 'They made up' or 'He made up with her.'

Conjugation

Present Simple make(s) up — They always make up within a day after an argument.
Past Simple made up — She made up a convincing story about missing the train.
Present Continuous is/are making up — He is making up the exam he missed last Thursday.
Present Perfect have/has made up — We have finally made up after weeks of not speaking.
make up In Context
make up · In Context

Narrative

Priya and her college roommate Jen hadn't spoken in two weeks — not since the argument over whose turn it was to pay the electricity bill. It was Priya who finally b first. She knocked on Jen's bedroom door one Tuesday evening, holding two mugs of chamomile tea. 'I was p ,' she said simply. 'I'm sorry.' Jen looked at the tea, then at Priya, and something in her face so . They sat on the ki floor for an hour, talking through the real frustrations underneath the fight. B midnight, they had ma , a the bill — split evenly — was paid. S , two mugs of tea turned out to be exactly enough.

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make up Common Errors
make up · Common Errors
They had a big fight last week, but they made up it very quickly.
They had a big fight last week, but they made up very quickly. When 'make up' means 'to reconcile,' it is used without a direct object, so no pronoun or noun follows the particle.
He maked up a brilliant excuse to leave the party early.
He made up a brilliant excuse to leave the party early. 'Make' is an irregular verb; its past simple form is 'made,' not 'maked.'
make up Shadowing
make up · Shadowing
They argued badly but managed to make up by evening.

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She always makes up an excuse when she's running late.

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He needs to make up the work he missed last Monday.

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We fought, but I'm glad we finally made up yesterday.

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make up · Narrative

On the night of November 9, 1989, East and West Germany were on the verge of something that had seemed impossible for twenty-eight years. The Berlin Wall, built in 1961, had physically and politically divided families, neighbors, and a nation. When East German authorities unexpectedly announced that citizens could cross the border freely, thousands of people fl the checkpoints. Families who had been separated for decades em on Checkpoint Charlie and at the Brandenburg Gate. Siblings who had grown up on opposite sides of a co barrier — some who had not spoken in years, others who had never met their own relatives — stood together on the rubble of a wall being to by ordinary hands. The reunification process was not pa ; economic and cultural tensions between East and West Germans persisted for years. B November 9 represented a genuine, historic turning point: a broken relationship between two halves of a people beginning the slow, di work of healing. S , it is one of history's most dramatic examples of what it means to ma — not just between two people, b between two entire ways of life.

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fall out Definition
fall out

To have a serious argument or disagreement with someone that causes damage to your relationship with them. After falling out, people often stop speaking to each other for a period of time.

"Maria and her best friend fell out over who should have been chosen for the lead role in the school play."
"The two business partners fell out badly when one of them tried to sell his shares without telling the other."
Neutral Inseparable

As the saying goes…

🏮 As the old Chinese proverb says: "Two friends who fall out over a dumpling will spend a fortune on lawyers arguing about the recipe."

fall out Examples
fall out
"Maria and her best friend fell out over who should have been chosen for the lead role in the school play."
"The two business partners fell out badly when one of them tried to sell his shares without telling the other."
"Jake and his brother fell out at Christmas dinner and haven't spoken to each other since."
fall out Grammar
fall out

Type

Inseparable phrasal verb.

Notes

"Fall out" is an inseparable phrasal verb, meaning the verb and particle cannot be split by an object. You say "they fell out over money" — never "they fell the matter out." When used with a preposition indicating the cause, the pattern is "fall out over/about + noun" or "fall out with + person."

Conjugation

Present Simple fall(s) out — My colleagues fall out whenever the subject of overtime comes up.
Past Simple fell out — She fell out with her cousin at the wedding reception last summer.
Present Continuous am/is/are falling out — It looks like those two are falling out over the new seating arrangements.
Present Perfect have/has fallen out — The directors have fallen out, and no one knows who is running the company now.
fall out In Context
fall out · In Context

Narrative

Priya and her flatmate Jess had lived together for two years without any se problems. Then, last month, they fell out over a simple household bill — Priya felt Jess had been paying less than her fair share for months and finally said so directly. Jess got de , and within minutes they were barely speaking. For two weeks, the flat felt un cold despite the central heating. Ev , Priya kn on Jess's door with two cups of tea and the actual bank statements pr out. Facts on paper, a a cup of tea — it turned out to be enough to begin ma things right. S , they never really needed to fa that badly in the first place.

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fall out Common Errors
fall out · Common Errors
They fell out their friendship because of a silly misunderstanding.
They fell out over a silly misunderstanding. "Fall out" does not take a direct object; use "over" or "about" to introduce the cause of the disagreement.
She fell out with him, and now she is very fallen out with his whole family too.
She fell out with him, and now she has a difficult relationship with his whole family too. "Fallen out" cannot be used as a standalone adjective to describe an ongoing state — the past participle is used only in perfect tenses to describe the completed action.
fall out Shadowing
fall out · Shadowing
They fell out over something really quite small and trivial.

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Have you and your sister fallen out again this week?

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He never expected to fall out with his closest childhood friend.

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If we fall out now, the whole project will fall apart.

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fall out Narrative
fall out · Narrative

In the early 1840s, Abraham Lincoln and James Shields were both rising political figures in Illinois — but their relationship collapsed dramatically and nearly fatally. In 1842, Lincoln published a series of anonymous satirical letters in the Sangamo Journal mo Shields, then the Illinois State Auditor, as v , incompetent, and dishonest. When Shields discovered Lincoln was the author, he was furious and demanded a formal apology. Lincoln refused to give one he considered ad , and Shields challenged him to a duel. The two men actually traveled to an island on the Missouri River — Sunflower Island — on September 22, 1842, prepared to fight with cavalry broadswords. O last-minute mediation by their seconds pr bloodshed. The affair de embarrassed Lincoln, who rarely spoke of it afterward, and the two men maintained a fr distance for years. In , it is a vivid historical reminder of how thoroughly two people can fa — and how a disagreement, left without genuine repair, can es far beyond its original cause.

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grow apart Definition
grow apart

If two people grow apart, they slowly become less close and connected to each other over time, usually because their lives, interests, or feelings have changed. This process happens gradually, not because of a single argument or event.

"After moving to different cities for work, the two best friends slowly grew apart."
"Many couples grow apart when they stop making time to talk and share experiences together."
Neutral Inseparable

As the saying goes…

🏮 As the old Chinese proverb says: "Two rivers that grow apart will never water the same field."

grow apart Examples
grow apart
"After moving to different cities for work, the two best friends slowly grew apart."
"Many couples grow apart when they stop making time to talk and share experiences together."
"She realized she and her college roommate had grown apart when they had nothing to talk about at their reunion."
grow apart Grammar
grow apart

Type

Inseparable phrasal verb.

Notes

"Grow apart" is an inseparable phrasal verb, meaning the two words cannot be separated by an object. You must always say "They grew apart" — you cannot place a word between "grow" and "apart." There is also no direct object with this verb; it describes a mutual, intransitive process between two or more people.

Conjugation

Present Simple grow/grows apart — Close friends sometimes grow apart when their lives take different directions.
Past Simple grew apart — The two colleagues grew apart after one of them got promoted.
Present Continuous is/are growing apart — I can feel that we are growing apart, and it worries me.
Present Perfect has/have grown apart — They have grown apart over the years and rarely speak now.
grow apart In Context
grow apart · In Context

Narrative

Mia and her childhood best friend Diane had been inseparable through school, but after Diane got married and Mia moved abroad for graduate studies, their phone calls became shorter and less frequent. One evening, sc through old photos, Mia felt a q sadness. She typed a l message to Diane, admitting, "I feel like we've grown apart and I miss you." Diane re within minutes: "Me too. Can we do a video call Sunday?" That one honest message didn't fix everything, b it cr open a door they had both been afraid to touch. S , they had grart slowly, a started closing the gap just as slowly.

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grow apart Common Errors
grow apart · Common Errors
They grew apart each other after graduation.
They grew apart after graduation. "Grow apart" is intransitive and inseparable — it does not take a direct object or a preposition like "each other" after it; the mutual meaning is already built into the phrase.
She growed apart from her sister during those difficult years.
She grew apart from her sister during those difficult years. "Grow" is an irregular verb; its past simple form is "grew," not "growed."
grow apart Shadowing
grow apart · Shadowing
Old friends can grow apart without meaning to hurt anyone.

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We grew apart slowly, not all at once.

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It's painful to realize you've grown apart from someone you love.

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Even close siblings sometimes grow apart as adults.

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Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels are celebrated as lifelong intellectual partners, but their relationship was not without strain. After the failed revolutions of 1848 swept Europe, Marx settled in London in poverty, increasingly co by his massive theoretical project that would become Das Kapital. Engels, by contrast, returned to managing his family's textile factory in Manchester — work he found soing but financially necessary to support Marx. Through the 1850s and 1860s, the two men wrote frequently, b their daily realities could not have been more different: Marx in a cr Soho flat, burying himself in British Museum manuscripts; Engels na cotton prices and factory ledgers. Their letters from this period show flashes of irritation, misunderstanding, and em distance. Y unlike many partnerships under similar pressures, they chose to close the gap — Engels eventually moved to London in 1870, and the two re their close collaboration in person. S , their story is a reminder that even the deepest bonds can gr under the quiet pressure of diverging circumstances, and that distance, left unaddressed, has a way of becoming permanent.

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sort out Definition
sort out

To organize, arrange, or resolve a problem, situation, or misunderstanding so that it is no longer confused or difficult. You sort something out when you bring it from a state of disorder or trouble into a clear, working order.

"We need to sort out the seating arrangements before the guests arrive."
"The manager sorted out the scheduling conflict between the two employees."
Informal Separable

As the saying goes…

🏮 As the old Chinese proverb says: "The man who waits for chaos to sort itself out will die waiting at a very disorganized crossroads."

sort out Examples
sort out
"We need to sort out the seating arrangements before the guests arrive."
"The manager sorted out the scheduling conflict between the two employees."
"Can you help me sort out which documents I need for my visa application?"
sort out Grammar
sort out

Type

Separable phrasal verb.

Notes

"Sort out" is a separable phrasal verb, meaning a noun object can be placed either after the full phrasal verb or between the two parts: "She sorted out the problem" and "She sorted the problem out" are both correct. However, when the object is a pronoun, it must go between the verb and the particle: you must say "She sorted it out," never "She sorted out it."

Conjugation

Present Simple sort(s) out — I sort out travel problems as quickly as possible.
Past Simple sorted out — She sorted out the train delay at the information desk.
Present Continuous am/is/are sorting out — He is sorting out the route confusion with the driver right now.
Present Perfect have/has sorted out — They have finally sorted out the issue with the lost luggage.
sort out In Context
sort out · In Context

Narrative

Priya arrived at Barcelona Sants station at 7:45 a.m. with a printout of a booking confirmation that showed the wrong departure date — she had booked for the following Tuesday by mistake. The train left in fifteen minutes. Heart hammering, she found the Renfe customer-service window and ex the situation in ha Spanish. The agent checked her screen, sighed once, then st typing. Eight minutes later, Priya had a n ticket for the next available train to Valencia at no extra charge. S , she sat down on a bench, exhaled, a texted her sister: "Crisis so . On my way." E the agent seemed relieved it worked out.

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sort out Common Errors
sort out · Common Errors
I need to sort out this problem until tomorrow.
I need to sort out this problem by tomorrow. "By" is used to indicate a deadline — the point in time before which something must be completed — while "until" describes a continuous action lasting up to a point in time, which does not fit the meaning of resolving something.
She sorted out it before the meeting started.
She sorted it out before the meeting started. When the object of a separable phrasal verb is a pronoun such as "it," "them," or "this," the pronoun must be placed between the verb and the particle, not after the particle.
sort out Shadowing
sort out · Shadowing
We finally sorted out the confusion at the border crossing.

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Can you sort out the hotel reservation before we leave?

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He sorted everything out calmly despite the long delay.

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They are trying to sort out the baggage mix-up right now.

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sort out Narrative
sort out · Narrative

In the summer of 1815, after Napoleon's defeat at Waterloo, the diplomats of Europe gathered in Vienna had a st administrative challenge on their hands. Decades of Napoleonic reshuffling had left the borders of German states, Italian duchies, and Polish territories in genuine chaos — hundreds of competing claims overlapped on the same maps. Prince Klemens von Metternich of Austria, al Talleyrand of France and Castlereagh of Britain, s months in intensive negotiation through late 1814 and into 1815, working committee by committee, dispute by dispute, to establish who controlled which territory. The resulting Final Act of the Congress of Vienna, signed in June 1815, re the map of Europe with enough clarity and balance to prevent a general European war for nearly a century. It was im and often self-interested, b the sheer organizational achievement — transforming post-Napoleonic chaos into a fuing state system — stands as one of history's most consequential examples of powerful, patient effort to so an almost impossibly tangled situation. Noess , the peace it produced endured for generations.

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